Why do you feel that you need to be obligated to pay for your children?
We make it when we have to do it on our own. It’s an honor to take care of your parents, but kids? This isn’t about desire to help, it's about guilt. Say ‘no’ out of of love for yourself, versus ‘yes’ out of fear that they won’t love you.
Suze Orman is a award winning certified financial planner and author of several books including 'The Road to Wealth'. She went from being a waitress at age 30, making $400 a month, to now having her own TV show and a net worth of $30 million dollars.